ON THE MENTAL TRAINING OF CHILDREN. 241 who improves the occasion by making a simple and lucid commentary on the scripture verses, Psalms, and Catechism, which make the principal lessons of to-morrow. He tells them they must be loving and obedient to their mother; kind and just to their playmates; attend school punctually, and improve in their learning; and above all to remember the word, and let it sink deep into their hearts-"Thou God seest me!" The books are now laid aside, and as a reward for good conduct they are permitted to take tea with the parents; and while "The cup that cheers, but not inebriates, Waits on each, they welcome peaceful evening in." After tea the fire is made up, the hearth is swept, and the happy circle close around it. The Family Bible lies open upon the father's knee, and through the casement the mellow lustre of the evening sun falls upon his thoughtful brow and calm countenance, while he breaks the hushed silence of the room with an invocation of Divine assistance and blessing in the duty of family worship. Shortly after it is concluded the children are sent to bed, with the mother's whispered injunction in their ears, "Be sure to mind your prayers." Surely there is good ground for hope that he who has been thus trained to "remember the Sabbath-day to keep it holy," and has "known from a child the holy Scriptures, which are able to make wise unto salvation," will, under the influence of his early impressions of purity and goodness, be preserved, while attending school, from much of that contamination which always exists where many children congregate, a great number of whom, alas! have never known the benefits of early home training. It has been often alleged, in excuse for the ignorance consequent on the very deficient education obtained in general by the children of the working-classes, that they are so soon taken away from school, the parents being under the necessity of putting them to some employment, in order to lighten their own burdens, and assist in maintaining themselves. But these very circumstances lay the parents under a double obligation to procure for them the means of further improvement. And where is the mother who, having the will, has not the way also— supposing she can read herself-of spending an hour every evening, when work is over, with her boys and girls in reading to them and hearing them read, and bringing home the moral of what they read to their hearts and understandings? while the father, who can write, and knows something of the rules of arithmetic, can take order for the proper use and improvement of the copy-book and slate-pencil. But if you cannot, or will not-which amounts to much the same thing-there is no want of evening classes everywhere, and you can be furnished with "all appliances and means to boot" in the shape of cheap teaching, cheap books, cheap every thing which can be required for clearing the path of knowledge from difficulties. But I think I hear many parents exclaiming, "Who is sufficient for these things? We have neither time nor opportunity for teaching our children." Yet I dare say ON THE MENTAL TRAINING OF CHILDREN. 243 you had time for courtship when you kept company with your husband before marriage; and still the mother has time to visit her neighbours, or spend some hours in gossiping with them in her own house; and the father can get time to talk politics and smoke his pipe, or feed his birds or his rabbits; and so "the first is made last, and the last first," and the poor children are the sufferers, being wholly neglected. "God helps those who help themselves;" and may God help and bless those parents who have a proper sense of the solemn responsibilities with which they are chargeable in becoming parents and heads of families! For it is not alone to God, to their children, and themselves that they owe a conscientious discharge of the parental duties; they are also responsible to the public for the many grievous burdens and intolerable nuisances entailed upon it in consequence of the disability of some parents and the neglect and criminality of others. SCOTIA: A VISION. MIDNIGHT'S solemn peal had rung; When visioned forms and shapes ideal Had bound me. On her mournful face Were blended: she the silence broke; SCOTIA. My virtuous maidens, fair and bright, To honour, grace, and bless the arms Let conscience speak, the roll of time 245 |